i have been tagged.

And because I am a good blogger, I will give in to this. Thanks to Momel, I now have to announce to the whole blogosphere what I want in a lover. Here goes emotional humiliation!


Instructions:

1. The tagged victim has to come up with 8 different descriptions of their perfect lover.

2. He/she needs to mention the sex/gender of their perfect lover.

3. He/she must tag 8 more people to join this game and leave a comment on their respective sites anouncing that they've been tagged.

4. If tagged a second time, there's no need to post again.


I need someone who is male but is sort of attached to his feminine side. Not too feminine or else we might both be in an eternal squalor as to who gets to use the bathroom the longest. But seriously, I need someone who is secure with his sexuality. No doubting Thomases for me. The following are the characteristics I am looking for in someone I would want to spend eternity with. Well, not exactly eternity but maybe just a portions of it.


~ As Carrie said in Sex and the City, I need someone who can give me real love. I need Ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, cannot-live-without-each-other love. I do not like public display of affections, though. I want text messages and calls in the middle of the night, I want kisses inside the car while stuck in traffic, I want jealousy, I want one-on-one soccer on a rainy Saturday afternoon, I want to read books with him while lying naked in bed; I want good old fashioned gay love.



~ I want someone who, when he talks, exudes intelligence and humor. It is hard to find someone who can talk about the effects of Chernobyl on nuclear energy projects yet at the same time can make me laugh even at his most corny jokes. I want someone who I can discuss foreign policy with but who can also joke about how odd our president looks like in her clothes. I want someone who is educated but not conceited, serious but not stuck-up.



~ He can play soccer. No need to elaborate this. I play soccer, I enjoy soccer, and he should at least know, if not be good at, soccer.



~ Someone who is willing to sacrifice time, is very patient and understands. I am fickle-minded. I cannot decide about stuff right away and I am a pessimist sometimes. Well, most of the time. And I need someone who can indulge my being fickle and pessimistic.



~ He should be able to tolerate my smoking, or he can smoke with me. He can drink vodka and tequila with me yet should be semi-sober when I am about to pass out.



~ Someone taller than me by an inch or two and someone who is moreno. His eyes should speak. Not too buff or I will be forever jealous and insecure. He should have at least a shoe size of nine or ten. Someone who does not fusses about clothes that much but he should know fashion. Someone who is not vain but takes extra care of his self.



~ Someone who likes to be pampered and wooed. When I am in love (or what seems like it), I always make it a point to spoil that person. He should be able to take in my rather-weird moves. I do random stuffs that are overly romantic at times and I want him not to squirm in shock or humiliation but maybe smile or blush or I dunno.



~ Someone who knows how to love and care and appreciate me. I am easily pleased but I want someone who fusses over me. Someone who will call me nonstop if I cannot be found. Someone who showers me with affection that I can drown in it. Hahaha. I just want someone who will love me. Immensely.



I am tagging the following people. I just want to know if they still believe in love. Haha!


1. Errol
2. Ai-ai
3. James
4. Rex
5. Talia
6. Honeyboi
7. Tricia
8. My sister